YOOHOO! Beginning to get some replies back on the job front. This is going to require some major decision making in the future. Oh, never mind, I've already made some of the decisions.
I've been contacted by recruiters in Georgia and Alabama now, but I am staying in the midwest. I am looking at one in Minneapolis, but if it turns out to be something great; I'm not going to worry about being farther from ex. Ok, maybe I worry a little.
It would be good to be a little closer than 8 hours away; more chances for positive interaction. But I'm beginning to really get comfortable w/having space between us.
I went through and found the post about the MLC stages. Ex sure does fit into the description! And it clarified something for me; I don't want to be around the anger, depression and withdrawal. He just gets spiteful and loads all that on me. So I have made up my mind to sit back and wait.
I'm not giving up hope yet. I still see him coming back around to try and figure out what's got into me. And I will just show him this great PMA that I have! No pursuing or pressure, he can do that.
Another thing I have realized is just how much my s8 is hurting over dad neglecting him. That is where I am focusing my attention. And that will be something that ex will have to make amends on. Whether we have a R later on or not.
I seem to be so busy the past few days, I wonder where did I ever find the time to dwell on him? We are off to get our dog in for a vet check and then run more errands today. I still need to study up some on my interviewing skills. A couple of those jobs are still looking pretty darn good, I just can't wait to start working at one of them now! Have to get past the interviewing first!
