You are doing great! Keep up a good PMA. Hopefully the work situation will be panning out soon and then you will have an easy time maintaining it. It is hard when there is a lot of free time to fill. One's thoughts tend to stray when that happens.
I like your line :"I have finally started to let go of ex and whatever his problem is, and am just enjoying the little miracles in life." Things start clicking into place when one accepts that as the way it is.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
