Get the 2x4's ready, I called the ex! No pursuing, so maybe I am learning.
Actually, I called and got no answer. Then he calls back 10 minutes later. (hmm?) I put s8 on the phone right away, son didn't say much which is normal. Ex and I talked for a bit but he seemed in quite a hurry.
He said he didn't get any email since it wasn't working, I asked if he wanted help w/that and walked him through it. he said thx for the help and thx for the card. Apologized that he had the bday wrong, then he said he hadn't come up w/gift ideas but would look at the store this weekend. well..... I said could you fit in packing the truck too, since mom & dad can bring it out to me over the holiday? he said sure!
He did backtrack a little then and say he hasn't had a chance to really look it over like he had promised s17. I said that's ok, I can take it in to get looked at here. Then he 'really' had to get going.
That's how he said it too. oh, there was a 'how you guys holding up?' in the conversation and I just talked about s8 being off schedule. And there wasn't any spiteful remarks about how bad his life is now which is different!
Ok, maybe not a bad convo, but I'm not sure what to do next - it's almost like we're farther apart than ever. He did say he would talk to us soon. I guess I wait and see how that goes!
