Trying to think through something here.

Ex usually calls on Saturday to talk to us, even though he knows this is when we go to the library and grocery store. So w/this being f/d weekend, I got all the running done Friday and stayed in all day yesterday. Of course, no word from him.

By noon today, s8 was getting bored and we went out to the park. I sent a quick email to ex saying, 'don't know if you planned on calling us this weekend, 's' and I are off to the park this afternoon. Could you please let us know a time you might be calling? (tried not to sound like 'I' want him to call )

So, now we are back and he called twice but never responded to the email. I am not comfortable at this point to call him, even if it is f/d, since he told me a number of times in the past not to call his cell and use up his minutes. And he had the home phone disconnected.

Should I try harder to get in touch w/him for today? (sent a homemade card, an ecard and the email) Or should I keep this line drawn that he can give us a reasonable time he will call. I guess I am worried that I am being too dark, but I don't want to cross the line to pursuit.

Any opinions?
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