Quote: you are where I used to be a year ago, afraid to rub your WAS the wrong way with anything. That made me lose all my boundaries. And my WAW did not respect me anymore.
It seems like my ex and I have played this part of the game too much. Many things he says and does keeps me from standing up and getting the respect I should get. That's the reason for not talking to him just yet. I feel I have gained a good amount of self-respect within the past few days by not devoting all my time to his needs, anger, control. One day soon I will point out to him that if he would set a time for his call, I would be glad to speak w/him.
Quote: Keep strong, dejavu. Become who you always were.
TY, UD and you do the same for you. In being who I am, I may never have a chance at an R w/ex, but so be it. Only time will tell and I can wait. (who knows, he did say once that he isn't totally against getting back together. but i can only accept something when there is respect for each other)
