Ex didn't give up all day yesterday and I missed every one of his calls and emails.
I can use any1's opinion here. Do I NOT say anything about yesterday as it will point out his mistake? Or do I send the following draft of an email:
... Hi there.
Just sending a quick note to thank you and 'd24' for the bday cards, I couldn't really let 's8' see them yet as his birthday is next month and I didn't want him to get too excited for presents. I still haven't bought anything for him, I've looked at a few things online that will need to be ordered soon if I go w/them. Wondering if you have come up w/some ideas, the email you had sent was kind of confusing.
I really appreciate all the thought you put into yesterday.
T.....
Now I also thought about saying 'If you want to talk by phone, can you let me know when you will be calling so we can plan to be here?'
Is any of this too negative or pushy? I have always hated pointing out his mistakes; he only gets defensive.
T
