And yes that has always drawn H closer to me. Right now that is why I am a bit of a dark-gray w/ex. I want as high of a PMA as possible the next time we actually talk or see each other.
He is throwing one of his temper tantrums. I called the atty office today in regards to the letter and they just wanted me to handle the IRA transfer. But the secty says ex is going around telling every1 that there is no way to get a hold of me. And that he doesn't know where we are, my address or phone number! I reassured her that he does know this and that I am keeping record of all contacts and that I even requested him to make a visitation this month. She said just to keep doing this and inform the court of my current addy (w/copy to ex) even tho I am not legally required to. Ex is acting out like such a control freak lately. I'm wondering if I really might have to get the law involved to get s17's truck and my stuff back.
I will send ex another friendly update today on s8 and then put all of his problems out of my mind and continue the job hunting! I am eyeing a couple of 50k jobs but that one at 70k sure looks sweet! I know I could handle the job too!
I'll keep you posted. (and try not to let my ego get too big) T