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I don't know if I have mentioned here that ex still has my truck and some possessions. Actually the truck belongs to oldest s17, (inhereted from his dad) and I wasn't going to let him drive through Chi-town w/it. Now I am stuck on getting it here w/o asking ex to drive it(he won't take the bus or train back). And I know that h is using it for his primary vehicle right now which is irratating me.




This is a boundary that you should be setting. I know it's difficult because you feel having the truck is helping him out. Can't you and your son drive over together and pick it up. Just call him and say you need it along with some of the stuff that you left behind like your social security cards. Or is this a very long ways away?


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Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
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