Does the midlife crisis last for more than two years?
Yes, I do believe that is a major issue here. (there were signs of an affair also, but that died off a year ago) I don't remember O'Conner, not to say I haven't read it, but have read the books and chatted w/Conway. Time to refresh and add those books to my summer reading list!
The bike was a big deal in h's life. I really didn't want him to have to let it go, but he was more involved w/it than anything else. Of course, that brought a whole new collection of 'friends' that work at a custom shop, so it probably won't be long before someone pieces one together for him.
Keeping in mind of an MLC; I sometimes wonder if that is why ex wants to keep me at a distance, therefore I'm not getting a constant barrage of all the drama he incorporates into his life now. And then his ego has always been a problem (doesn't like me to earn a better income than him) and where I live now that is definitely not a possibility! Even tho that would relieve him of the high amount of c/s??!!
I still am pleased w/email he sent yesterday and I just realized another reason why. He said to tell 's' he loves him! ex has not said that in over six months, not even when he came up to visit him-he wasn't allowing s to bond w/him. hmmm!
