Starting a new thread since I am going to follow the lead/advice of other members here and not go totally dark w/ex-h. The only thing it brings is less interaction w/him and more moving away from the ultimate R.
My goals are (in summary) 1. Keep a positive interaction going w/h. 2. Not to let the anger/negative emotions get between us anymore. 3. Move forward on GAL 4. Enjoy s's little achievements and involve ex in these. 5. Enjoy life! As I said it is just a summary, I need to revisit the small steps to take in reaching my goals.
I am really wanting to send xh a text message or email today to remind him that we want him to come for a visit. Maybe a greeting card saying 'I'm thinking of you'?
And in conclusion: I am thinking of adding one of these as a signature, but would appreciate comments first. (are they too negative based?) A. Doubts are only by-products of insecurities and fears. B. To let go of the anger might allow a feeling of love to take hold.
