Obviously, I don't know you or your H, but I'm just relaying some info about a life experience I had, not projecting it. At the time, I didn't realize I was doing it. Not until years later into my second M.
When I said you hate him cuz he's being an a$$, what I meant was he is being an a$$ because from his point of view you are wanting to be in control and he's pissed about it.
Maybe what I was trying to say was, what if you took this one situation (taking the kids in the morning) and tried to do something different with this one thing. If it worked out, would not that success maybe flow into other parts of your R?
Sorry, if you felt I was picking on you. And I'm not taking his side either. Just wanted to put something out there that might help.
