heatherg. Your post sounds like emotions running wild in overdrive.
If H is taking the kids to day care let him have the good spot. Where you park the car is not a symbol of your status in or out of the home. Get the extra sleep.
Maybe in a couple of weeks, say how much you needed the sleep and how helpful the extra hour of rest was. Offer to trade off, where you take the kids to day care. Try to think partnership instead of competition.
In general you need to put the brakes on what you "think" is going bad. Some things are bad, but please slow down. It does sound like you could use a third party to mediate or to talk camly with, as to what is going on in the R before you both make things worse.
Can you go to counseling? agree to disagree? or some how, to see the others point of view without making them out to be the bad guy?
