Quote: have the two of you kept up with your physical appearances over the years?
By physical appearances do you mean, to an outsider do we get along? I would say most people would consider up dedicated to the M, or duty bound to keep things together.
Quote: Are you still physically attracted to one another?
In some ways but it is getting more difficult to stay that way and I am detaching little by little because once one problem gets some air time and some solutions, it seem to work a little while, then something else comes up and most of the time it is up to me to do most of the work if I want changes to take place. Most of the blame comes back to me. BB finds excuses whe she is lesser at fault usually because I did something first and she only reacted to what I did.
Quote: there has been so much I couldn't do
I don't think back much about what I could have done. I did my best with the time, money education, circumstances that i had at the time. BB was my only serious girlfriend. I guess I have had so little for so long before I was 22, BB's life looked so good compared to what I had. Almost no experience with other girls. Work was so important from the time I was 16 as I had to support myself and my mother from that point until I got married.
Quote: He's had lap dances before, etc. But never me. The double standard has existed since the day we met.
That sucks! I don't want or believe in lap dances.
Quote: Are you suggesting the possibility that "something" actually happened
I Dont know but I suspest little really happened other than gazes across the room. I know BB is attracted to men who apear to be powerful and charming.
