Quote: understand some why your H is looking at porn on the internet.
For some guys it is similar to looking at expensive cars. They look nice, exciting but you know you can't have them. I look for many reasons. One is they are pleasing to look at, I wonder about the various combinations of body parts/features. Similar to what I did as a teen when modifying a car, removing chrome, adding 2 spot lights (American Graffiti) type cars).
Some girls (perfect body type) go to great length deciding which swim suit looks good on them. I say they all look good. I don't undrestand all of the time invested looking for swim suits, purses, or shoes.
What might reduce my looking. A W that was into sex, holding hands, othe touchy/feely things more, not such a prude, and other repressive behaviors. I would not be on this bb is things were better. The dogs & cats get most of the lovin. Nough said.
Quote: Do you mean I should suggest using porn myself
Not you using porn IRL, but ask your H to mentally be the wife, you be the H. If he was the wife, would he feel something like you feel?
