You mentioned that H had a possible addiction problem w/alcohol. Perhaps addiction is in his personality and that him viewing porno is also an addiction. I'm not saying that viewing porno is right, but if you think of it as an addiction instead of those women competing with you, does it help you to stop thinking about it so much?
I don't know how to break the porno habit if he doesn't want to. I know that there are blockers that can be installed, but that may just tick him off.
