Quote: A cheater's worst enemy is their own mind. The less you say, the more they think. And the more they think, the more they come back to reality
HG: I realize this is an old quote, but after you posted on my thread yesterday, I started reading your story. I appreciate the advice to soften up. I'm interested in this quote and would appreciate your thoughts on it on my thread. (Do I really want to know?)
Quote: I then asked if he had planned for D2 and I to come to the movies with him and S4 tonight. He said yes and told me the time. He said S4 said that he would like the "girls" to come too. So I said "when did he say that?" He said "last week". I said "oh, because you hadn't mentioned us coming. You've been talking to S4 about it all week but haven't mentioned to me that we were invited (Thursdays are typically "boys night out", which is another whole story). We were gonna work on that right, letting each other know what the plans are?" No answer from him. Does that sound a little pushy;
It sounds a little antagonistic to me, but I don't know your tone of voice and body language. I agree with akron. Somewhere along the line I learned to "tend to agree" and keep the answers short. Choosing your battles wisely was another good piece of advice that I picked up along the way. Going to the movies as a family, at this point in my sich, would be one that I would skip.
