You're right Anna, at least he talked to me!! Thanks for seeing the bright side of things, however dim it may be!!
~Update~ I went home for lunch today and H was there. I casually said hi and went to the kitchen to get something to eat. I sort of talk like the silent treatment isn't happening. I say things that don't necessarily require an answer, like "I guess I'll have to go to the grocery store to get S4 different hot dogs for his picnic Friday b/c he doesn't like the ones with the cheese in the middle".
I also very casually asked him if checked out this website at all. He asked "what website?" I said "the one I was on last night" He said "no". I proceeded to tell him that my goal was for him to feel like he could trust me and if he wanted to ask me any questions about it that I want him to know I'm completely open to answering them. I then asked if he had planned for D2 and I to come to the movies with him and S4 tonight. He said yes and told me the time. He said S4 said that he would like the "girls" to come too. So I said "when did he say that?" He said "last week". I said "oh, because you hadn't mentioned us coming. You've been talking to S4 about it all week but haven't mentioned to me that we were invited (Thursdays are typically "boys night out", which is a nother whole story). We were gonna work on that right, letting each other know what the plans are?" No answer from him. Does that sound a little pushy; I said it very friendly, as though it was probably just an oversight on his part. It's just that he was the one sooo adamant that we keep each other informed of plans.
Shortly after he went outside to do something, then came back in, then left to go back to work and didn't say goodbye.
Any pointers on my interaction with H today?
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
