Quote: What are your short term goals for the next 2 weeks. And what are you going to do to get there?
Well, I had lots of great goals and then this stupid email thing happened and it got me very discouraged. But, since I took the time to comprise them, here they are: 1.Give back password to my email account 2.Keep him posted on my whereabouts 3.Carry my cell phone and always answer it 4.Call if I will be late or if my plans change 5.Don't talk on the phone in the evenings 6.Play more with the kids 7.Praise H more, give compliments 8.Don't yell 9.Discuss only one issue at a time during R talks 10.Set an internal time limit for heavy discussions 11.Don't call names or swear during discussions/arguments 12.LISTEN 13.Empathize 14.Count to 5 befoe I speak/reply 15.Ask questions, ask his opinion 16.If he initiates, we have sex. No rejection. 17.Initiate sex more, at least once a week 18.Small gestures of affection 19.Give myself space if feeling irritable so I won't pick fights 20.Write about anything I may want to discuss with H. That way I can clarify points, decide if it's really worth discussing, etc.
So, that's what I came up with. It just all seems so pointless when we aren't even speaking....I'm feeling discouraged tonight as mostly when I see him I hate him more than love him. Is that normal?? Anyone??
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
