Quote: Winning in court requires having the winning argument. A relationship doesn't work that way.
Good point NYS! Court aside, that's something that I am guilty of... arguing in my head with H about why what he's doing is so wrong, illogical, unfair etc. And in the past I would tell him so over and over and over. He had no answer except "I know. I know." Then he'd go and do whatever anyway. It doesn't matter that I have the more sound argument... this is marriage, not debate club.
Sorry to hijack this thread... just struck by that point.
