Trust can be regained - and it is a choice, but it doesn't happen overnight.
Quote: So, then Tuesday he decides I've blown the trust again and I find out the next day when I try to log into my email account that he's hacked into it and changed my password. How am I supposed to feel about that?
Give him all access to whatever he wants. This is to prove your not hiding anything. If you don't have anything to hide this won't be a problem. If you have something to hide, you will call it controlling. He doesn't want to be controlling, he just wants to trust you.
