Akron-
Here's a thought that came to me tonight: I'm concerned that the trust never really comes back. There is always the doubt. She did it once, she can do it again. That line of thought is rational and it makes sense. No matter how many years pass, you'll always wonder when times get tough, is she going to do it again?
I'm wondering if trust can really be earned back, I'm thinking it's never really earned in the first place. When you meet someone and start dating, you trust them. Not because they've earned it but because you want to have a R with the person and to do that you need to trust them. So trust is really a leap of faith made by the person granting the trust. You're giving someone your heart and trusting them with it because you WANT to.
Thoughts anyone?


"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

- Nathaniel Hawthorne