I need some good advice here. I've posted a lot of the details on my situation, but in case you've not read my thread before, I had an online friend outside of my marriage about a year ago. In addition to this, I also spend time with another guy on about 5 differenct occasions and there was some kissing involved. I came clean with my H and things have been very rocky. Here's the part I need immediate help with: I gave my H the password to my email account and let him read all of the emails that had been exchanged with the online friend. He later also gave me the password to his email account where I found that he had emailed himself copies of the emails between me and this other person which I never gave him permission to do. I deleted the emails. This was months ago and nothing has ever been said about it. Until today. Apparently, he just realized it and is FURIOUS with me. He said "Way to restablish the trust!!" "I'm speechless". I said "I was open and honest with you and let you read everything, but I never gave you permission to keep anything" and then he hung up on me.
This is bad isn't it? What do I say when I get home tonight????
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
