Thank you so much for your advice. I will be waltzing around all day tomorrow - acting "as if". You are right I am going to be the sexist woman at the outting - at least to my H and that's what counts! I will spend time chatting with his co-workers, etc. I do get along with them all very well. And in the past my H has always told me he is very proud of me, my accomplishments and how I carry myself at these get togethers.

I really appreciate this advice it is going to definitley steer me in the right direction!!!

I'm now really looking forward to this event!!! I'm in charge here and I need to portray the condifent, outgoing fun loving person that my H has always loved.

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!

P.S. I also look forward to getting in a few PITY glances!