I did re-read part of db'ing lst night and just thought I would share - we all need to focus on solutions not the problems - how often I forget that. Solutions, Solutions, Solutions!!! I'm going to continue to try to drive that into my mind over and over again!
Anyway, a little advice please - I have the big golf outting tomorrow. I will most likely not be able to check this message board after 3pm today until Saturday. With that said, how should I act at the outting knowing OW will be there...
Should I ignore her? Should I try to stay away from her? Should I stay very close to H for the luncheon and for most of the day?
This is the OW's first opportunity to see H and I together since before all of this happened. I don't want to make the wrong move and I want to try to convey a message to her that we are together and happy. I know, there I go again talking about OW - but I will see OW tomorrow really for the 1st time since before the January 2005. I'm a little nervous and I want to show I'm confident with my H and our R. Of course I'm not going to be hanging all over him. Has anyone had to face the OW in a setting like this before, it's somewhat of a work outting. What do I do if I notice she walks up to H and starts talking - do I ignore or do I go join them?
