You are right I should not try to intepret - just very surprised because he really has never brought up her name to me. Knowing my H tit may have been his way to let me know for sure that "hey she is not on my team" and there is nothing there so I feel comfortable saying her name around you. But, who knows.
I am really going to try to get her out of my mind. I thank you for your insight. I need to focus on my db'ing stuff and not OW anymore.
My H jsut called me at work. I have a book called Emotional Infidelity. I bought it back in Jan./Feb. I have read it and highlighted parts in it. The other night (last week when H was out of town) I was feeling a little down and got some of my books back out and re-read some sections. Well anyway H just called and says
h - I see you left the EA book out on the dresser and highlighted areas. me - I said I was looking at it the other night. h - he says yes I think you left it out for me to see the highlighted areas (maybe I did in a way I'm not sure) me - I was just looking over some stuff - it helps me h - I can't beleive you are still thinking about this - it's a joke. me - I'm sorry I don't mean it that way H - I have to go got a lot to do at work today me - ok
He was not in a good mood - mad about his new cell phone not working, and then I don't think happy that I'm still looking at this book. Thing is - it has been on my dresser/night stand for 1 week. I guess he just noticed it. Now, I feel bad and feel we have taken a backwards step. You see he says there was not an EA. I think there was something. Why would he not want to help me get beyond this, why would he care if I was reading self help stuff?
