I did it! I got up the nerve to actually ask "for my husband" when I called this morning. I was actually returning his call so it went like this
OW - good morning blank company this is xx Me - Good Morning - may I speak to my husband please OW - he's not here right now Me = ok, would you please leave him a message that I returned his call and to call me? OW - ok Me - thank you.
Now I'm feel a little nervous and shakey inside - I don't know why...
Let's see if she gives him the message....
Oh why do I feel nervous and shakey right now... seems strange.
Now H is calling on his cell so he is out of the office.
Oh he went home to the store to get a muffin and a pop.
I said I saw you called so I called your office but you were gone. He said, yep just went to get something to eat and drink and I wanted to touch base with you. He said he is going to plan a get away for us today. Maybe go up north for a weekend. Sounds good to me.
I wonder when he gets back if she will mention I called to him. I really can't ask now if he is returning my call because he called me on his cell while he was out
So how will I know if she gives him the message? Is there a nondiscret way I can ask?
