We're on an emotional rollercoaster, and our feelings follow along whatever thoughts we're having. When we're on the low, we get frustrated. impatient. That's when we get angry and no longer have a loving outlook on our WASs, and that's when we think of divorce. Lots of posts reflect that and I've been there too. Yet, divorce won't change the feelings nor stop the rollercoaster. We imagine that serving a divorce will serve up relief from our feelings, but not so... if anything, it will add another object of sadness.
Like you wrote, the feelings are "on and off", because they follow our ever changing thoughts. What you feel today is not the way you may feel tomorrow. All the more reason not to act on your feelings and to practice thought control.
