One more thing I thought I would write. H just called he is almost at the other office out of town. We started talking about his sister who is going thru a D. H mentions he thinks they should have tried to work it out. H says "marriage is for better or worse". H then goes on to say "we are getting along better than ever and things were really rough there for awhile for us". I said yes they were. In H's sister situation there was an A and it was a physical affair. He went on to say today on the phone they they really should have tried harder and it was unfair to sister that she wasn't given the chance by her H to try to work it out, he just left. My H also said it was very unfair to the kids involved.
OK these are all positive things my H is saying. But he thinks we are getting along "better than ever". While this is true and we are having good times and we are spending a lot of quality time together and with our kids - I still have hurt I'm working thru. It seems he doesn't realize this... or he just wants that to go away. But eventually don't we need to talk about all this and not just brush it under the table. Yes things are great, I have been GAL and having a PMA. Or do I just work thru these last few things on my own?
