Hi golfer - my H's OW is a coworker. He said he 'broke-off' with her. But he still needs to be work with her, so it is rather difficult. My H is looking for another job. Think he is not confident with himself of being able to stay away while still having to work with her. Not even sure if he can really stay away even in a new job. I think it is rather difficult if the OW is pursuing. Everyone is telling me that my H should just do the "emotional and mind" thing and need not leave the company. It is easier said than done. How can you ask him to switch off when he sees her everyday, spends more time with her than the family?? I think it would be difficult.
In your case, you'll just have to wait patiently and see if the sitch changes. Perhaps the OW will get fed-up and leave the company.
