Called H at work today in regards to our kids. OW answered. I did not ask for my husband (I know I should hav), but I was very up beat - She said Good Morning blank company this is xx. I said "Good moring. May I please speak to John Doe". OW replies - "yep just a minute". Then I go on hold for 3 minutes, but I continue to wait. She gets back on and says "He's busy do you want me to have him call you". I reply really nice "Yes, that would be great - thank you". Well to make a long story short about 1 1/2 hours later H calls. I asked H if he was returning my call. H said "You called?" I told him yes about 1 and 1/2 hours ago - H says "that b@tch did not give me the message". I did not say anything, I just said "oh ok" and I went into why I called in the first place. He must have been thinking about it while I was talking, and I think it made him mad (It sure made me mad that my message wasn't given to H but he had no idea I was mad). We were talking and then he says "that bugs me I did not get your message, well she has a lot of things going on at work today a lot of problem issues to resolve." I said nothing and then we went on with our conversation. So I wonder do you think he really thinks she was a "b@tch" for not giving me the message. Do you think she purposely did not give the msg to H? Maybe he is starting to see her for what she is worth - which is NOTHING!!!