Thanks for the advice. We have been having a lot of good times lately of which I'm very happy to say. So maybe this weekend after dinner one night if the day has gone well I will do as you suggested and let him know I would like to talk when he is ready - I really like this approach very non-threating.
Quote: ----------------------------------------------------------- My suggestion, when you and your husband are alone, and the day has been a good positive one, maybe just let him know that there are some questions you have, that you'd like to have his honest answers, in order for you to begin your healing process. Tell him that you don't need to have the conversation now, but that you're just wanting to share with him how you feel, and when he feels comfortable and ready to help you, how much you'd appreciate it if he'd let you know. After this, don't bring it up again. If you do, he'll feel the pressure of having to have this conversation with you. If he truly has chosen you, he'll want to talk with you and help you heal.
