Thanks so much for your advice and DO appreciate it!! I will call him at work now if I need to and not the cell. I won't over do it and won't most likely even call everyday, just when I need to or if I am returning his call.
I like your suggestion to ask for my husband. I sure hope I can get up my nerve to ask for him in that manner. Do you think that is to bold? I know in my heart it is not - especailly compared to what she has done. But in the past before all this happened I would call and just ask for him by name...
You are right when I call I should be very happy and sound very confident and out going - like this - OW answers and says "Good morning blank blank compnay this is Jxxx". Then I should say "Good morning! Would you please put my husband on the phone?". What do you think?
And OW says he is gone or not available maybe I would say "Ok not a problem. Would you please let him know I returned his call - thank you!".
Let me know what you think. I know you are right I should ask for him that way and I should not feel stupid, but for some reason I do... Is it an ego thing? I know I'm a better person than her, and I know I AM a winner but boy do I have trouble even thinking about calling...
