A question I have... The OW is the secretary/receptionist at H work. She pretty much always answers the phone. I feel almost like I can't call him now at work. I feel stupid, humiliated, etc. I feel like she is thinking ha ha, I'm going to steal him. I have not told my H all this. I have only told him that I feel funny calling his work. He says call when you want, you should not feel that way. I am with you. At one point about 4 months ago when I know they were talking 600 to 700 minutes on the cell phone (now down to 110 min) I needed to call him at work to get the kids after school. I had to work late. She answered and was very rude to me. I told H that she was a little rude, he told me he said something to her... who knows if that is true. I called again in about a week for something and he asked me if she was friendly. I guess she was a little friendlier, I just told him yes. But, why do I feel like I can't call him at work? He is my husband, staying at our house, sleeping with me, doing stuff with our kids, taking me out once a week, etc.
Do you think it is ok to call him at work? Should I? I mean I'm not calling every minute or even everyday for that matter. I'm not chasing him or bothering him, I just need to call once in awhile in regards to rides for the kids, etc. For that matter he calls me at work and asks things like what do you want for dinner. Would you like me to get is started, how late will you be at work, etc. etc. I just don't feel comfortable calling because I know she will answer. So if I need him I generally call his cell. Do you think I should just call his work number if I need him and not call his cell? I mean in the past I would have just called his work. Shouldn't she be the one that feels stupid when I call and shouldn't she feel like a sl@t when I call? Any advice on this one would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
