I believe things are on track for us. The EA lasted from Dec 2003 - Oct 2004.

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You see I think the OW is really chasing my H.




My experience is different: my H pursued her - she had a long time bf and was having problems with him.

Maybe its good that the ow IS pursuing and being clingy and needy with your H (driving by resturant you guys were at ... sounds like shes a psycho) .... Think how when WE pursued H - they withdrew.

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Will I ever trust again?




I still have issues with trust - I don't think my H needs to know that though. Time plays a big part and also my H's follow through with what/where/who he says hes doing/where hes going/whos hes with.

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but will she ever go away?




Tough one - In my stich the OW quit job at H's clinic - that helped alot. I think its a *very* positive sign that he doesn't call her back.

What DB principles have you been applying ?