Thank U for your response. Did things work out for you? How long did the EA last? I do not bring OW up anymore I have been real good. H knew when the phone bill came and thought I would be pleasantly surprised to see he is shoving OW into voice mail. Yes it looks like he is doing that for the most part, but he does occassionally call her back - not like he did for 2 months the calls are definitley dwindling and maybe it is because I don't ask much and at home we are getting along pretty well, we do go out once a week and just have fun, we are intimate again. But, I still wonder. I wonder if he really wants me... And then at other times I don't even care and I don't let it bother me. Will I ever trust again? I sure hope it worked out for you! You see I think the OW is really chasing my H. I think that because lately he turns his phone off early at night and did all day sunday. I know his password and checked his messages and she called. He never called her back and saw her Monday at work. I know he did nto call back because we were together all day and had friends over and he had his phone off on our dresser. So then I think all good signs, but will she ever go away? Any advice from anyone on their experiences with the OP going away... Thanks!
