Thanks for your input. My H also syas they are just friends, but I do not beleive that. maybe to H they are but I know she wants more. I even caught her going by a resturant he was meeting me at one night. I don't know why I guess to check up on him. I never told H I say her drive by, but that said it to me that she wants him. Recently the phone bills have dropped way off and he says he is just pushing her into voice mail. I would like him to tell her not to call anymore. Is it ok to ask him to do this according to DB'ing? I am seeing a counselor and he says it is ok. Because each time I see the phone bill it makes me start all over healing and with trust. What do you think? Thanks
