Hi Golferpro - I wish I could give you some input here but I also would like to know the answer to your question. My H never admitted to an EA but there were the cell phone bills and text messages to her but he swore multiple times they were "just friends". Hopefully, some wise DBers will be by to help you. Hang in there, SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
