Quote: I am pondering setting an initial time deadline of Dec 05 to stay in the M and not make accusations etc. no matter
I found this very helful in my sitch, I'm not sure why. I remember LAST year setting a deadline of hanging on till March 1; then last august I decided to hang on until June, which would get S12 through the school year. Then in January, I decided to make June 1 also the deadline to go to without mentioning ow...it was hard, I missed that one. but somehow having in my mind that I would go to that point in time and then re-evaluate helped me. It was sort of like "I don't have to do this the rest of my life, I only have to do this until..." and it helped it to seem a tiny bit less overwhelming.
