Ok H just called. Said he turned off the phone because he was in dentist's office and then at the doctor's office and then lunch.
H has been lying to me. Yesterday the doctor's office called our house to confirm H's appointment with the doctor. H had not mentioned this before. I asked if the appointment was for his mother and the receptionist had called us by mistake.
H said appointment was for his mom. But clearly it was for him. H is starting to get age related dental and physical problems. I jokingly asked if he was going to lose all his teeth just now on the phone.
He responded quite seriously. I think age is afraid of aging/dying and my joke didn't help. I keep monitoring all H's behaviour and totalling the score.
The coming home late, the turning off the phone, the insensitive jokes about infidelity. I don't know if this M will make the long haul.
