Welcome to a high adventure. We are really sorry that you have found yourself in this situation, but if you are willing you are in for a great time in self-discovery.
There are a few of us that are dealing with addicts and our attraction to them. Lots of issues to explore. But like JB suggested, read the threads, read Divorce Remedy and post. You can use it as a journal, post questions, ask for suggestions and sometimes just vent.
My personal opinion is that promises made from prison and rehab are not very credible, since it is pretty easy to be strong, sober or faithful with 24 hour supervision.
What strengths did you find in your marriage? Was substance abuse always an issue? How old are the kids?
What do you see as YOUR part in the problems of the marriage? What goals do you have now?
Desdamona
Arguing with reality is like trying to teach a cat to bark—hopeless. (Byron Katie)
