Just a wee bit about my situation-
Married almost 13 years, 3 kids, H is a cross-addicted alcoholic. He got busted for a felony assault on a cop and 1st poss. of MaryJane after a night of heavy drinking and a fight with the host. He was on an alcohol tether for four months up until his trial. He confessed to drinking "a beer" about a month into his tether, and was smoking, too.
I filed in February after much debate. I had told him I couldn't be with him if he was drinking. He's in rehab now, and seems to have turned a corner in his thinking. He professes his deep love for me, with promises to change. His letters from rehab are quite persuasive, almost emotionally manipulative. Lies have been a huge saboture in our relationship. Do I call off the divorce? How can I be sure? I would love some feedback on the situation. P.S.- I do love him-