Got back from a weekend visit with H. Things went great, IMO. The last night there he and I sat up drinking, watching movies, and talking. It was the first time I felt completely comfortable around him, and I think he did too, cause he stayed over really late (the kids and I got a hotel cause his apt. is too small). I was disappointed that he didn't stay in the hotel with us, but I didn't make an issue of it.
We talked a lot about OW and her psychoticness. I am 100% certain there is nothing between them anymore. I wasn't positive til now, but now I know. I'm still scared though, cause I think she really may be crazy. H's car got hit a few weeks ago in a parking lot, hit bad enough that he couldn't open the front door and barely open the back door. He found out through a friend of hers that it wasn't an accident. She was in jail at the time, so I guess she had one of her friends do it. She was mad that I was there this weekend, and didn't want her daughter hanging around me. She went off on me and her daughter (T) stood up for me, so she got even more mad. I also read some text messages she sent H on his cell phone, and she was still whining about the stuff he wrote me. 3 months ago I had forwarded her copies of the emails he sent me when he first started asking me to give him another chance. Mushy, emotional stuff about me and negative stuff about her. So she's apparently still hung up on that. I couldn't read the outgoing texts, though, so I don't know what H said to her. And T told me she talks like her and H are still together, was talking about taking them all out for Father's day. T asked her why, and she said something about that's what people who are going out do. T said she told her uhh, you're not going out with him. She also showed up at his apt. the day before I left to come home, and started screaming at him. T doesn't like her and doesn't ever want to be around her, which is her own fault because she is never around and when she is, all she does is scream at people and start fights. But she blames H for T not wanting anything to do with her.
So. I am worried that the crazywoman might do something drastic. On one hand I am a bit grateful for her stupidity and all the drama she causes, cause H hates all the drama, so it makes me look even more better. but I am really worried she might try to hurt him or T. She told him when they were together that she would kill him if he ever left her. I told him he needs to get a restraining order against her, but I don't know how that would affect him seeing T. He wants to try to get custody of T, but I have looked up the laws online and I'm pretty sure the only way he could is if psycho-bitch gives up custody and lets him have T.
