Hi, Bruce, thanks for stopping by. I will try to get by your thread and check it out. I did catch some of your posts to others today, and you sound like a very wise person.

It really is like they pop out of a tunnel. Just incredible. H is a completely different person than he was 2 years ago. he was so far gone then, I really didnt hold out much hope. And even just a month ago when I went with him to an out of town workshop, he was irritable and impatient and nothing suited him.....kind of a nasty person to be around.

You know, maybe your story is on your thread, and I'll try to check it out, but you said you "popped out"....I would very much like to know what your thinking/experience, etc., was like when you were "in the tunnel".

I believe women do "pop out"...


been around awhile!