Just a bit ago I got this email: "Yes, it's been a time of lots of learning for both of us. I am sure that you are the one who does love me, as I see the other situation I'm aghast at what a self centered hateful monster she is, ugly hard, cold eyes and all. It scares me I was so drawn in by her [censored]. I guess the good lord just kept me thinking something wasn't quite right until I finally got out of her spell. I guess he made sure I realized just who did truly love me and what that really looked like and for that I am so thankful. I guess you are stuck with me! Your D"
Then I got a short one saying he can't wait to see me tonight, and maybe we could go for a walk together.
The great guy I married is still in there, and starting to come out! oh joy! Finally! after all this time and all the dark dark moments and anguish and heartbreak.
It would seem that he must have had some kind of unpleasant contact with her today, I don't know what else could have "flipped the switch" like that. And it is like a switch has been flipped. He absolutely was not capable of seeing this before (ow for what she is).
