I could use some objectivity here. I don't know what to think....what this means or how I should respond. I am so terrified they will get back together again...I know I go off the deep end (or have to fight to keep from it) at any and every reference. so.....
I got this email from H at about 10: "How's your day going? So far I'm off and busy. I had a number of cancellations for tomorrow so I think I'll take it vacation. I can miss the all staff meeting and supervision. I'll be a lot more comfortable without sitting there with nothing to do and you know who around. Plus, I'm tired of losing so many vacation hours . Do you have enough time you can take off? Later, D"
I responded I'd have to see if I had enough time to take off, that I thought it would be good for him to, and asked if you-know-who was being obnoxious. got this reply: "No not obnoxious, but I ran into her walking out to the vehicle this morning. I just don't really want to be around her, makes me feel kind of sick, and she doesn't look much like she wants to see me. Maybe I can coordinate with her making sure one or the other is gone every Tuesday for several months"
I don't know, maybe I shouldnt have, but I replied that maybe he could just take vacation on Tuesdays for a while, since he's losing hours, and asked if it wouldnt just open the door for her to have more excuses to stay in touch if he tried to "coordinate" being gone on Tuesdays. I havent heard back from him.
Why would he feel sick when he sees her? Does it sound like they/he is looking to get back together, or is it good that he is now open enough to talk to me about it, to share his discomfort and thoughts?????
How should i respond??????? Isnt it kind of a counter-productive thing to try to plan not being here at the same time?????? I really don't know what to think or do......
