oh yeah, H said that about 2 weeks ago she was pressuring him to "get together and talk as friends"....this IS when he was emailing me about that he was going to have to do paperwork again that saturday and I called him on it.!!!!!! I am so glad I called him on it.
Also said ow saw the emails a month ago asking me if I was going to the out of town workshop with him, and "that really made her mad"....I just had a feeling, because of the change in the tone of his emails, that some how she was on the periphery (sp?) then....that she was going to jump in and go if I didnt, or something. I just "felt" it....and then that day while we were there, H was so cross and distant....