Night before last, H told me part of what ow said to him that finally turned him against her: evidently when she called him at home a week ago tonight, one thing she said was that "you're just a 50-year-old fool who had an affair". Evidently he told her she was just a 42-year-old bitch that set out to steal another womans husband.
I can understand how that would cut H to the quick after all he feels like he's been through for her.
Last night he told me that she had forbidden him !!!!!!!!! to walk with co-workers at lunch, demanding that he set by the phone and wait for her to call, which sometimes she did and sometimes she didnt. That she was always furiously jealous of the female co-worker (she's cute, but in a "kid" way, she doesnt worry me) and would make nasty comments about how the other co-worker would always "have to walk right beside you" as they were leaving for the other office, etc...how ow was even jealous of the former secretary in the out of town office (who had an affair with a coworker) and would raise heck with h about both of them.
H said that he didnt hear a word from her yesterday, and he thinks she finally got the message, said that he asked her "which part of I hate you and never want to see or talk to you again; leave me alone can't you understand?"
I notice this morning that yes, the razorback is the only "critter" on her dashboard, and she has also taken down the rosary and crystal cross she had hanging from her rearview mirror. which brings an interesting thought to mind: I always had a "gut feeling" that those religous items/symbols were a part of her efforts to manipulate H, along with all her stories of cats just like ours, her horses, etc.
