ohhhh, something I was going to post and forgot, but I think it's important. last night H mentioned that it took him about a year from the start of the a (the start of the P part of it anyway, I sure the e part started 6 -7 months earlier) to begin to see ow's "true colors" enough to even begin to think "maybe I better take a look at this"...it was about this same time that he BEGAN to see my changes as genuine and lasting..."for real" is how he put it. so it took probably 8 months of me dbing my butt off for him to even consider re-thinking things. and this was all "under the table", he sure never said he was re-evaluating, although his confusion was evident in many ways. When it talks about it taking patience and a long time in DR, it's not an understatement!
I have to mention something I find interesting. As I was leaving for my meeting, I drove by ow's vehicle. she is parked about as far away from me as she can get. Remember the yellow teddy bear that appeared on her dash around valentines day and got on my last good nerve when she began parking next to me????? gone. hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
