WN & Mollie, I have to run to a meeting, I havent gotten to read your posts yet, but thanks so much, I will this afternoon as soon as I get back. I wanted to post this. I just got this emails from H: "Thanks for the e-mail. I understand more than you know. I am not pessimistic about our future, please just give it some time as it is not going to go from one extreme to another overnight, nor do I expect that it should. I saw the snot in the hall as I was leaving and I think she looks pretty blown away. She has bigger bags under her eyes than I do. I think the e-mail where I flat out told her I hated her and to leave me the F alone shattered her plan of playing games and hanging around and working on getting back together later. I don't think she expected I would get so mean or say such things, now she knows so I don't think the parking problems will persist or I'll ever hear from her again with anything except business!"
this is what i have been suggesting/asking him to do for a year...of course part of my suggestion was that he cc it to me.....but I have to take some heart in the fact that slowly, slowly, torturously slowly, H seems to be doing the things that I told him long long ago I would need for him to do for us to start "rebuilding".
