I wish he would talk stuff over with some one (who would be supportive of the M)but I don't believe he ever will...it is so against everything H has ever stood for to have an A, especially with the likes of ow. I think he's terribly ashamed and embarrassed -- I know he is. I don't know what bearing all that has on the rest of the sitch, but I do know that he's got a lot of guilt and shame and embarrassment.
Lord I hope it's over. this made 5 weekends that he hasnt gone to see her (unless he does see her on his long walks)...I guess I should say 5 saturdays he hasnt "done paperwork".
obviously he is very emotionally invested in her as long as he is so angry and hateful. I know that's actually a measure of emotional connection. I also know that anger usually comes from basic emotions like hurt and frustration. I don't know, I can only hope that it means he's moving towards letting go to be at the anger stage.
I shouldn't have spent that much money, I'm afraid it probably really wrecked our budget for the next 2 weeks. I will have to make sure I don't do that again when I do leave home.
